Covid-learn the truth

No thank you to peer pressure about vaccinations.

There is so much going on in the world it is sometimes hard to keep up with it all. We have a virus that magically a vaccine came out super fast for and our country became divided. People swearing by a vaccine that they don’t know the long term effects of or even how long it will provide immunity. We have vaccine passports being created to limit people from traveling. Have a vaccine? You can go anywhere. You don’t? Sorry, you’re out of luck. Since when has it truly been up to the government to say what people need to put into their bodies? We have people dying of cancer, but cigarettes aren’t banned. People driving drunk and killing people, but alcohol isn’t eliminated. Obesity has been on the rise, but processed foods are becoming more common and are cheaper than healthy choices. It doesn’t make much sense. They tell you to get a vaccine to be healthy, but don’t put foreign substances into your body, exercise, and eating right will also make you healthy… and help decrease your chances of getting sick and help your immune system to fight off viruses. But sure, lets tell everyone to wear a mask, social distance, and get a vaccine if they want to be safe.

If you go to the CDC website, you will find that they have no clue to how long the vaccines are good for. It could very well be that by all the people are vaccinated, the first round of receivers will need to get a booster shot. The CDC also states there wasn’t an FDA approval on any of the vaccines. But people are rushing to put this into their bodies? I hear people talk about how sick they get on it, but swear that’s because it is working. Are people really that clueless? Getting sick is your body’s reaction to fighting off something that shouldn’t be in it in the first place.

It really shouldn’t be pushed to have a vaccine. It’s quite scary actually. Originally, it was said that a vaccine was already being worked on because Covid-19 is a different strand of something that was already being worked on. And then it was changed that no one had known anything about it. So which is it? The government won’t tell you. If masking and social distancing were so effective, wouldn’t numbers have already dropped? And if the vaccines worked so well, shouldn’t we being seeing a decrease in numbers? There is also a few new strands, but no one knows if the vaccine will work against those ones or not. The virus is just like the cold or the flu. It changes, will need new shots created, and will need booster shots as well. Is it really worth it? Individuals are being told that if they are vaccinated and around other vaccinated people they don’t have to wear a mask or social distance. Problem with this is we don’t know who might be exposed and carrying the new strands of the virus. They could be passing that around because the CDC says they can skip on any precautions. People with vaccines now think they are invincible thanks to the reports the CDC and our government put out there. So many deaths have been sited as being “Covid related,” but the deaths caused by the vaccine are being said to not be Covid related. Why not? Since Covid started we no longer have the flu, pneumonia, or any other issue that could cause death. It’s quite crazy to me. I really can’t wrap my mind around it.

People really need to take the time to educate themselves. You truly can’t take the government’s word on anything. Just because they push it doesn’t make it safe. There are a lot of people who roll their eyes and state people are paranoid and are believing conspiracy theories, but if people took the time to look into things themselves, they might learn quite a bit. The government has been putting things into people since WWII. There is plenty of data out there on this. History is bound to repeat itself when too many people take things at face value and don’t educate themselves.


Empowering Women

Empowering women today is making history.

To end National Women’s History Month, I thought I would do something different. I believe my wife, Brittany, will make history some day. She has the courage and strength, the dedication, experience, and knowledge, to make history and to change society for the better. She has a story to tell and that story will end up helping many in the long run. She will teach other women to learn how to see their own strength and own worth. To realize it is okay to leave a bad situation so you can start to heal. I believe she has a lot to offer this world. She really does. She has many purposes in this life, and she’s going to accomplish all of them. I’m just lucky because I get to stand beside her while she does. I get to watch as she finds her place in this world. I get to watch her grow. I get to watch her determination. I’ve watched so much already take place and she keeps showing me every day what all she is capable of. She’s taken what would kill most and has used to as her fuel to become who she is meant to be. You remember this post. Because some day you will see her everywhere making changes in this world.

Loving Letter to My Wife

My love for you is deeper than all the oceans.

Dear Loving Wife,

In your lifetime, you’ve never been loved the way you deserved to be. You deserved caring hands, kind words, hugs every day. Those in your life were never capable of doing these things. It was always a reflection of what they lacked, the ability to love anyone outside of themselves. You never let it burn you though. It could have harden you, changed you, but you didn’t allow it to. You took what you knew and you have loved with everything in you. Your babies know love, support, and attention because of you. They’re good people because of you. You haven’t always been capable of seeing your own worth, just how amazing you are. It’s hard to see the shine inside yourself when so many have tried to dull it. I’ve always seen it though. I’ve always wanted to help you see it too. I wanted to make it so you’d see just how worthy of love, patience, and kindness you really are. I have always wanted you to feel just how much love I have in me for you, and that you deserve to be loved and to love in return. There has never been a single thing wrong with you. You just lacked having the right type of people around to show you that those who hurt you are crazy, inconsiderate, and evil. It was never an issue with you. You have a heart of gold who would do anything for anyone. And when they realized just how much good is in you, they tried to take it because they couldn’t have you breaking free of them. But you did break free. Step by step, you broke the chains they cast on you and have found yourself. It hasn’t been easy on you, freedom rarely is, but you’ve made it to the other side. You know you’re worthy of love. You know you’re safe. You know nothing done was ever your fault. Those who have hurt you will have their own judgment day for it all. But for you, you get to live the life you were always destined to live with peace, love, and happiness. I’m proud of you for always fighting to be who you were meant to be. I love you.


Your Wife

To Vaccinate, or to not Vaccinate, the choice is YOURS

My Facebook post that was “Fact Checked…” They came back with the vaccine has been tested for safety. A couple of weeks is not long enough o know long-term effects. My Facebook now pops up with news items pushing the vaccine agenda. No thank you, Facebook.
On the CDC website. They don’t know how long the vaccines will work for… because there hasn’t been a long enough trial done on the vaccine. This could potentially mean that people will need to have boosters every 8 months. Yet, long-term effects of the vaccine are unknown and they want you to keep putting into your body.
This is for one of the vaccines, but you can go to the CDC site and see that none of the current vaccines have been approved by the FDA. It is scary how hard they are pushing the vaccines when so little is known about it.

A Narcissist Never Changes

When someone reaches out and says they’re being abused, listen.

A narcissist will always be an narcissist. They will always make others believe they are good. They will always play their role when out in public and perform well for a crowd. They will make people think they are fun, kind, and outgoing. They will always hide their true selves from people. It is behind closed doors that they let themselves be free. It is behind closed doors they rant, they fight, they explode on the ones they swore and promised to love.

We hear people ask the victim of a narcissist, “why don’t you leave him?” Or we hear them say it can’t be true. The narcissist is too good to be someone who would abuse you. The real question should be, “why isn’t he in jail?” It shouldn’t be up to the one being abused to explain why they haven’t left, why they feel they can’t leave. They need support, not guilt. An abuser is never made to prove he/she hasn’t been abusive. It is always up to the victim/survivor to prove they’ve been hurt. Having a black eye, broken bones, or a bloody nose is never enough either and that’s a serious problem with society. Cops are called. They show up. The narcissist plays his cards of being the good guy and the next thing anyone knows, the cops are writing it off as a fall and rolling their eyes at the abused.

A PFA is just a piece of paper. It doesn’t keep a narcissist away. It’s also hard to even get a PFA as judges are just as corrupt as cops. A narcissist with deep pockets and deeper connections is hard to escape. They pay people off to believe them. They pay judges off to make the abused look like a fool when all they want to do is escape the pain, escape the hands that hurt them.

The family of a narcissist will support him/her fully. They’ll make you think you’re crazy and that things aren’t really happening. They’ll guilt you to try and make you think you are making the wrong decision in trying to leave. They’ll back you into a corner so you can’t leave, so the abuse can keep happening. They can’t imagine their “innocent” offspring being so evil as to hurt someone.

Friends and family who wear blinders won’t be of any help. They’ll also support the narcissist and be shocked you don’t see yourself in the perfect relationship. People only see what they want to see, believe what they want to believe. When it comes down to it, a victim/survivor feels the most alone when they turn to those they think they can trust just to be discouraged and pushed back to the abuser.

A narcissist will always be a narcissist, but a victim may not always be a survivor. Too often a victim is left with no resources, no support, no help and they give up on life. Too often their voices go unheard. Too often their lives come to an end, either by the narcissist or by their own hand. When will society stop asking “why don’t you just leave” and start helping victims to have a voice so they can survive abuse? When will enough people lose their lives to abuse that society, family, and friends finally take a stand and demand change? I know I’m already there and I’m ready to demand change. I believe you and I’ll help your voice be heard. I’ll stand for you and beside you. I will always support you.